I’m making some changes. Sure, I still love serendipity. But life is more than a series of accidents that fall into your lap when you are least expecting them. Life is like playing “Where’s Waldo,” in an ordinary photograph. He may not be there now, but as soon as you find a red sharpie and a spark of creativity, you’ve got gold. Maybe every problem in life can’t be solved with a sharpie and an open mind, but usually our problems aren’t as scary and complicated as we make them seem.